Wedding Weekend in Maine

Scott was the best man for his friend Sanjay, and wore traditional Indian garb with the rest of the wedding party.

A little dancing on Dad's shoulders at the reception.


And a walk on the beach near our rented cottage at Owl's Head. Audrey was up with the sun, and the sun is up early in Maine! From our bedroom we saw some gorgeous sunrises... at about 4:30. May as well enjoy them if you're going to be up anyway.

When we got home this afternoon we spotted what looks like her first tooth starting to errupt on the bottom gum. Which could explain why right now Scott is upstairs unable to get her to calm down and go to sleep.

Parents: share all your teething remedies, quick! We are offering her cold washclothes, which seems to help a bit. And I think we'll be offering some baby Tylenol before the week is out.

I Love Lucy, and Lucy Loves Beets

This immediately made me think of Lucille Ball and the way she would paint her lipstick waaaaaaaaaaaay outside the borders of her mouth. Audrey achieved this look by taking a mouthful of pureed beets-- of which she greatly approved-- and pressing her lips together, a kind of "Compliments to the chef!" gesture that she has. Don't be alarmed by the color; it's really just beets, sweet potato and pears all pureed together. That is nature's own hue, I swear. And now that hue is on everything. And I do mean everything.

Chickpea's List of Hostess Do's and Don'ts

Do offer your guest a reassuring pat if he is missing his Mom and Dad a little.

Don't pull your guest's pacifier out of his mouth and wave it tauntingly in front of him. (Audrey forgot her manners momentarily and did just that. Liam was quietly appauled.)


Do show your softer side by hanging out with guests in your p.j.'s. Don't wake the guests at 4:00 in the morning. Just don't. (Margaret and Ruth visited us on their way from Vermont back to Seattle. Lovely to see you both!)


Do pose for keepsake photographs. Don't spit up on the guests in their traveling clothes.


A little adendum for anyone who was worried by our last posting: sleep has gone much better in the last few days. Thank you for your concern, Aunt Janna.

Confessions of a Horrible Meanie?

Tap, tap, tap... is the tape recorder on? Okay, this is my formal confession. Our day has started with a bit of a jarring bump. Audrey woke up at four this morning, not quite an hour after I had already been up to feed her, and I just could not get up again. Just. Could. Not. I got about halfway to her room, and then something in me refused to take a step further. I turned around and went back to bed, and she cried for quite a while, and finally Scott got up to give her a bottle because, well, she was crying pretty hard and I had put a pillow over my head and was doing the la-la-la-la-I-can't-hear-you thing. She basically didn't go back to sleep again until I put her down for her morning nap a few hours later at 7:30, and she's still asleep now. Blessedly, she did consent to the nap; I wasn't sure what to do if she still refused sleep. Scott also got to go back to bed finally to get some badly needed sleep (he was up late working), and I got to sit in the kitchen having my coffee and considering all this kerfuffle.

Am I okay with how things played out this morning? Not exactly. Am I willing to get up multiple times in the night with my now-almost-eight-month-old? No. Maybe. It depends. I kind of wish I had just gone in to feed her when she woke the second time, even though it frustrates me terribly when she does that.

And so it goes.

Did you request our Little-Pig Wake Up Service (registered trademark)?

When Janna and I used to climb into our parents' bed, way way too early in the morning, it was called The Little Pig Wake Up Service. Audrey is carrying on the family business and waking up her dad nice and early, to help him get a vigorous start to his consulting day.

As soon as she can crawl, she'll be adding a Continental Breakfast option!

Why wait for take-out, when you can eat the menu right now?

She is lightning fast, and cunning. Yesterday I put her in the Exersaucer in the kitchen while I washed a few dishes, and in the time it took me to scrub one pot, she got a hold of our take-out menus, which are pinned to the refrigerator with a magnetic clip, and she took sizable bites from of several of them. I still cannot figure out how she managed to reach out and across a space longer than her body to get the menus. This maneuver must have involved climbing nearly all the way out of the Exersaucer and balancing on her stomach on the edge. By the time I turned around-- to the sound of her coughing-- she was back in her seat, munching. And she did not want to let go of that delicious mouthful of wood pulp and ink-- no, sir! I had to pry it out, one mashed up bit at a time.

Lesson learned. Clear all detritus from the three feet directly above the floor.

Life as we know it is over. Again.

Mother's Day '08

For my first Mother's Day I received the strawberry-and-chocolate picnic at Pierce Park that I requested from Scott. Audrey was not able to come through on the full-night-of-uninterrupted-sleep that I requested from her, but she did agree to sleep during the picnic. All three of us protected our pasty white skin with sun hats and enjoyed the deliciously warm (but not too warm) weather. Scott allowed me to eat most-- okay, all-- of the chocolate, which could make for some high-octane breast milk later, but oh-well.

I am quite thankful today for my healthy daughter, my husband who remembered to bring my sun hat to the park so I wouldn't get sizzled, and for our good fortune to be a family. Happy Mother's Day!